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Our life is thus arranged, that along with love, separation stalks somewhere there as well. There is no man on earth who hasn't experienced at least one separation with a partner. And we cannot delude ourselves - it always hurts. Your mind says that it is for good, everyone encourages you and says that this is as if you have almost won the lottery, when you have got rid of someone who does not deserve you. But it really hurts there, on the left side.

In today's article I will write about which are the factors in the horoscope that can lead to a separation. What are the main reasons that undermine our relations and jeopardize the integrity of the relationship. Why there are people who are almost always in the role of the abandoned and such who are always in the role of those who abandon.

In any relationship or marriage there come moments of conflicts. Everyone wants to have a partner, but not everyone can be a partner himself or herself. And if you enter into this simple sentence, you will realize what is the meaning of conflicts and why we always come to them.

Interpersonal conflicts in our lives are most often with the partner and everyone has to deal with imbalances in intimate relationships. There is no such a phenomenon, where perfect balance and harmony reign over the partner relationships. Sometimes the imbalance is so deep that people cannot cope with it and therefore come to a separation. In others, balance is maintained more easily and they manage to keep their relations.

As there is everything in life, there is also a house in the horoscope, which takes a priority "care" for the losses in life, for the escapes, for the release from commitments, for the separation and the reasons for all this. This is the 12th house in the horoscope. According to astrological rules for each field there is a corresponding 12th house and the causes for destruction, disintegration, loss, separation and release lie in it.

In the horoscope, the 7th house is responsible for partnership in life. Therefore, the most vulnerable place for partnerships is the 6th house in the horoscope, which performs the function of the 12th from the 7th. According to its state we can assume what the conflicts will be, whether they will be surmountable or not, whether they can actually lead to an ultimate destruction and loss of the relationship. I have included exactly this information in the analyses for each zodiac sign, which you will find below.

Basically the 6th house is considered by the Ascendant when it comes to actually visible things which may lead to a physical separation. The same is good to be done according to the Sun and the Moon in the horoscope as well. Sometimes people experience only an emotional and spiritual separation without a physical one. This is because the 6th house, according to the Sun or the Moon, is very strong, but the 6th house according to the Ascendant, talks about the availability of a more easy restoration of the physical balance and thus doesn't lead to extreme decisions of a physical separation.

An interesting phenomenon is that we choose partners who always carry in their own horoscope a focus on what constitutes our 6th house for us. For example, for Ascendant in the sign Aries, the 6th house falls in the sign Virgo and the main features of the Virgo, as well as the planet Mercury, are usually very strongly expressed in partners. I will also include this as information into the descriptions.

Last but not least, we always come to the question why some people are almost always in the role of the abandoned and others are usually in the role of those who abandon. This is determined by the position of the Ascendant's planet. The signs in the zodiac are divided into male and female:

Male signs are: Aries, Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius

Female signs are: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn and Pisces.

The woman by nature carries a reactive energy, while the man - an active one. A planet in a male sign acts, it initiates and causes something to others. A planet in a female sign takes what someone else causes it. Therefore if you have an Aries Ascendant and Mars in your horoscope is in one of the male signs, you're usually the one who takes the initiative in breaking of relations. But if Mars is in one of the female signs, then you will be in the role of the one who waits for the other to initiate things. This is also influenced by other factors, and sometimes it is not in quite a pure form, but the principle is this.

I will also include information on this matter in each sign as well. Note that only the sign of the Ascendant counts, and from the planets the main seven ones - Sun, Moon, Mars, Mercury, Venus, Jupiter and Saturn - are considered.

Read the information about the sign of the Ascendant, the Sun and the Moon. This will give you the most complete picture of all potential reasons which may seriously undermine your relationship with partners.

Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Aries

The 6th house falls in the sign Virgo. Typical for the Virgo is their almost obsessive devotion to detail, order, pedantry, corrections and amendments, the desire to achieve maximum perfection in everything. You hate deepening and concentrating on unimportant things. You dislike someone correcting you or making you keep everything in order. Criticism and constant verbal invasion by the partner on issues related to small things, details and order, requirements to maintain perfection in everything, are the things that mostly cause conflicts and undermine the foundations of your partnerships. Regarding the role in which you usually are - the one who abandons or the abandoned - check whether Mars is in a male or in a female sign. You choose partners, in whom the sign Virgo is highlighted in some way or Mercury is expressed in their horoscopes.

Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Taurus

The 6th house falls in the sign Libra. The fact that Taurus and Libra are ruled by the same planet, partly explains the lack of more serious conflicts, and hence separations are rarely observed in your case, once a lasting relationship has been formed. However, there are things which cause problems sooner or later. Sociality and sociability, characteristic of the sign Libra, and hence the regular absence from home, the neglect of family, the likelihood of infidelity, come first in the list. Your partners' need to always have a company (even if you are with them) and the serious difficulties in taking final decisions, are the next things which may be a cause for conflicts. If your partner exhibits all this, it is the root cause for shaking the relationship. Regarding the role in which you usually are - the one who abandons or the abandoned - check whether Venus is in a male or in a female sign. You choose partners, in whom the sign Libra is highlighted in some way or Venus is expressed in their horoscopes.

Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Gemini

The 6th house falls in the sign Scorpio. There is nothing that infuriates you more than the partner's secrecy, their understatements and looks of the kind "do not poke your nose, if I have not invited you". Unwillingness to communicate, silence and concealment, beating about the bush, are the main causes for conflicts and shaking the foundations of the partnership. Emotional vortices, rancour, lack of desire to inform what they are doing or intending to do, lasting inability to dispose of problems, misremembering your every step, tactless comments on your talkativeness, can drive you crazy. If your partner exhibits all this, it is the root cause for shaking the relationship. Regarding the role in which you usually are - the one who abandons or the abandoned - check whether Mercury is in a male or in a female sign. You choose partners, in whom the sign Scorpio is highlighted in some way or Mars and Pluto are expressed in their horoscopes.

Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Cancer

The 6th house falls in the sign Sagittarius. Undying quixotic optimism and constant "stumbles" over everything, clumsiness and sincerity, characteristic of the sign Sagittarius, can be really killing for your mental peace. The more you seek to maintain stability, the more your partner's neglect, idealism and fighting at windmills becomes a thorn which sticks deeper and deeper. Their desire to travel, to be constantly in motion, the lack of tactfulness, the willingness to unscrupulously express their opinion, to wonder which sea to swim across next, while there is not a pinch on the table, are things which slowly and permanently lead to conflicts. If your partner exhibits all this, it is the root cause for shaking the relationship. Regarding the role in which you usually are - the one who abandons or the abandoned - check whether the Moon is in a male or in a female sign. You choose partners, in whom the sign Sagittarius is highlighted in some way or Jupiter is expressed in their horoscopes.

Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Leo

The 6th house falls in the sign Capricorn. The sign Capricorn carries features such as a tendency to sadness and melancholy, to deep pessimism and fear of tomorrow. Your partner's constant proneness to being workaholic, their goals and ambitions to achieve professional accomplishments, economy and manifestations of parsimony, their reluctance for entertainment and vacation, can chase you out to the other end of the world, and why not even to another planet. For you, if your partner is depressive, the rare occurrence of a smile on his or her face, are as if you are being constantly poured over with boiling water. Their reluctance to be on display, adherence to modesty and discipline, do not appeal to your nature at all. If all listed is manifested by your partners, this regularly gives rise to interpersonal conflicts. Regarding the role in which you usually are - the one who abandons or the abandoned - check whether the Sun is in a male or in a female sign. You choose partners, in whom the sign Capricorn is highlighted in some way or Saturn is expressed in their horoscopes.

Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Virgo

The 6th house falls in the sign Aquarius. The ability of this sign to submit shock and voltage, to create "short circuits" around them, and to move according to a completely inexplicable logic and always outside the accepted as normal, creates a deep discomfort for you. If you are famous for your propensity to perfection in detail, then the characteristic of the sign Aquarius is almost a complete anarchy. Not that there is no order, but it is completely incomprehensible to you. Another characteristic of the sign Aquarius is the ability to get you into their own rhythm, while taking you out of yours in the most unceremonious way. Selfishness and stinginess, "mine is mine, others in common", are also characteristic of this sign. All this, shown by your partners, is the main source of conflicts and problems. Regarding the role in which you usually are - the one who abandons or the abandoned - check whether Mercury is in a male or in a female sign. You choose partners, in whom the sign Aquarius is highlighted in some way or Saturn and Uranus are expressed in their horoscopes.

Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Libra

The 6th house falls in the sign Pisces. From the sign Pisces flow characteristics such as an almost complete absence of any limits, a desire for a life outside reality, a manifestation of some kind of schizophrenia such as "I'm here, but not really", entering into sexual adventures of the style "I do not really know what happened", is the main factor undermining the foundations of your partnerships. Despite your inclination towards active social interaction with elements of subtle flirting, in sexual terms you put yourself limits and rules. And if you encounter the typical for the sign Pisces tendency to swim around and inability to engage with something concrete in a relationship, this becomes a huge problem and a source of serious conflicts for you. If your partner exhibits all this, it is the root cause for shaking the relationship. Regarding the role in which you usually are - the one who abandons or the abandoned - check whether Venus is in a male or in a female sign. You choose partners, in whom the sign Pisces is highlighted in some way or Jupiter and Neptune are expressed in their horoscopes.

Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Scorpio

The 6th house falls in the sign Aries. The fact that Aries and Scorpio share a common planet-ruler - Mars - partly explains the lack of more serious conflicts, and hence in your case separations are rarely seen, once a lasting relationship has been formed. However, there are things which cause problems sooner or later. Impulsiveness and the almost childish naivety at times of the sign Aries can turn you into ice. For you, as people who are known for their skillful manipulation capabilities, living on the principle of strategies and for whom each step is well conceived, measured and focused, naivety and impulsivity is not just a bit more for you, but even tear you. Quick temper and rapid making of rash decisions, are also a major source of conflicts. If your partner exhibits all this, it is the root cause for shaking the relationship. Regarding the role in which you usually are - the one who abandons or the abandoned - check whether Mars is in a male or in a female sign. You choose partners, in whom the sign Aries is highlighted in some way or Mars is expressed in their horoscopes.

Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Sagittarius

The 6th house falls in the sign Taurus. Slowness, almost infinite patience, indulgence for comfort and convenience, are things in life so not typical for you. Not only atypical, they are totally impossible to comprehend. Persistence, the standstill on something sometimes for years, unwillingness for adventure and exploration of the world and life, are a reason to come into conflict with your partner. For you, the availability of space is vital, you don't easily tolerate the moments when someone is standing purely physically very close to you. And from the sign of Taurus derives the feature that gives a particularly strong desire for a physical and corporeal contact. Such a thing can drive you crazy and make you rapidly escape from your partner. You do not assign particular importance to material things in life and if you have to live with someone who insists everything in their life to be branded, expensive and luxurious (characteristic of the sign Taurus), this can become a nightmare. If your partner exhibits all this, it is the root cause for shaking the relationship. Regarding the role in which you usually are - the one who abandons or the abandoned - check whether Jupiter is in a male or in a female sign. You choose partners, in whom the sign Taurus is highlighted in some way or Venus is expressed in their horoscopes.

Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Capricorn

The 6th house falls in the sign Gemini. Loquacity, unceasing curiosity and desire to inform themselves about everything, are qualities in your partners which can make you weary, since they constantly violate your desire for concentration and meditation. You need solitude in which to "collect" - to gather and shape your thoughts, ideas, goals and beliefs. Playfulness, the perennial questions of your partner, their occupation with minor things, the need for diversity, their variability and motor activity may be the cause of serious conflicts. The initiation and abandonment of things unfinished, empty promises and especially empty talks, make you think about how long your relationship can last. And when it comes to their mania to buy all kind of toys, especially informational ones - telephones, computers, televisions, and everything electronic, this is a serious blow to your attitude towards finance and expenditure. If your partner exhibits all this, it is the root cause for shaking the relationship. Regarding the role in which you usually are - the one who abandons or the abandoned - check whether Saturn is in a male or in a female sign. You choose partners, in whom the sign Gemini is highlighted in some way or Mercury is expressed in their horoscopes.

Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Aquarius

The 6th House falls in the sign Cancer. The main characteristics coming from the sign Cancer - emotionality and the need to be obsessively caring about you - are absolutely unacceptable when exhibited by your partner. The emphasis on family traditions and the constant contact with children and parents, are something incomprehensible to you. You don’t have the need to constantly assure yourself in the other's feelings, and when your partner wants promises of the kind "Till death do us part", for you this is almost as if the shadow of death is hanging over your relationship. From the sign Cancer stem more features such as permanent suspicion, mistrust, uncertainty and fear that their stability can be destroyed. For you, these things are equivalent to making you go into a routine rhythm and to restrict the expression of your personal individuality. If your partner exhibits all this, it is the root cause for shaking the relationship. Regarding the role in which you usually are - the one who abandons or the abandoned - check whether Saturn is in a male or in a female sign. You choose partners, in whom the sign Cancer is highlighted in some way or the Moon is expressed in their horoscopes.

Ascendant, Sun or Moon in the sign Pisces

The 6th house falls in the sign Leo. Some of the characteristics of the sign Leo are associated with the enormous demands for honour, respect, flattery, compliments and adoration in huge doses. If your partner shows them, this is not a particular problem for you, since you are known for your excellent adaptability and ability to transform like a chameleon. Problems arise when requirements start to include carrying out of specific activities, maintenance of daily routine and performance of all service functions. For example, any "menial" jobs - washing, cleaning, cooking, shopping. This you will hardly bear, since pure everyday life routine really and truly disgusts you. If you are required to work for two and whatever the job, to take care of providing basic daily material needs, while he or she is looking for a suitable position and a market sector, matching his or her personal preferences (and this may continue for a long time ), the foundations of your partnership may shake very seriously. And conflicts are not late. If your partner exhibits all this, it is the root cause for shaking the relationship. Regarding the role in which you usually are - the one who abandons or the abandoned - check whether Jupiter is in a male or in a female sign. You choose partners, in whom the sign Leo is highlighted in some way or the Sun is expressed in their horoscopes.