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Our lives are filled with a lot of different things that we "want", ranging from very small to bigger ones. You may have heard the phrase "If you do not know how to ask you will naturally be refused." How to ask correctly? What are the magic words to avoid someone's refusal? Everyone happened to want something complying with the rules and to receive an abrupt refusal. This is probably because the "rules" are different for everyone.

Today's article is about the personal correct words that easily open the doors for you. Of course, there will always be situations in which one’s road will be closed, but in everyday life and in terms of small things, one can avoid hearing the unpleasant words "No, it’s no go; no, you cannot."

In astrology, the second house has the meaning of "personal resources". The common perception is that it is only associated with the money that a person manages to accumulate in his or her lifetime. However, the meaning of personal resources is all through which one survives and thereby stays alive. Of course, the money and finances we avail to obtain food, clothing and objects which have value for us are in the first place. Nevertheless, we possess and use something else to survive, which is eyes and speech. We use our eyes to see where we go and what risks we may face. We use speech to ask questions, want something, ask for something and say that we need something.

Therefore, when it comes to words with the help of which we want something from someone, we turn to the second house in the horoscope. This house defines our vocabulary, how we use it to obtain this or that as well as our "magic words" that guarantee us a benefit/profit, to put it roughly. This is not associated with one’s intellectual development, way of thinking, ability to talk and communicate. I have in mind the words and speech intonation that help us obtain what we want.

When the configuration of the second house in the horoscope is complicated, a person is faced with more problems affecting his or her financial condition. He or she may face frequent refusals when he or she wants something from someone, no matter how small it is. This person uses words and vocabulary that provoke the others to refuse instead of assisting him or her. Few people have thought that there is such a relationship in life between speech, intonation, words and the ability to provide money, goods and other items.

I will begin by briefly explaining the meaning of individual planets in the second house. Every planet has its own style of activation and of contributing something to your possessions.
 
     Sun - allow yourself to frequently use the word "I", speak confidently, as if it is impossible to be refused. Do not miss compliments.
     Moon - focus on feelings and emotions, be joyful, smiling or sad and sorrowful, concentrate on family, homeland, patriotism.
     Mercury - speak smartly and knowledgeably, show that you have the knowledge and information, share what others would like to learn.
     Venus - speak with grace, beauty, elegance. You will benefit if you put a little flirting/ seduction in your intonation.
     Mars - you are very vulnerable to facing resistance, but you should still be provocative, make the other person prove him/herself and compete.
     Jupiter - be enthusiastic, "infected" with optimism, be a philosopher, use eternal wisdom and phrases.
     Saturn - speak authoritatively, emphasize your respect for others, focus on what is useful and on what has proven to be stable and secure.
     Uranus - use something a little weird but original and innovative in your speech, and, why not slightly shocking.
     Neptune - do not speak directly, be delicate, unleash your imagination, create a dream and then get to the point.
     Pluto - be careful while speaking because every word has great power. Use your intonation to emphasize the most important things, adding power to them before saying them.
     Below I will describe your personal "magic" words that offer you the greatest chance of obtaining what you want. Find the sign of your ascendant.
     Ascendant in Aries
     The second house falls in Taurus and it is ruled by Venus. Therefore, when you want something, try to speak slowly and clearly. Do not use too complicated explanations, try to put your request as simply as possible. Do not "flood" the other person with too many requests, deliver them in a consistent and personal manner. Frequently use words such as "it is worth, expensive, valuable, convenient, comfortable", focusing on the pleasure that can be derived. If appropriate, you can mention the word "money", how much each of you could profit and pay.
     Ascendant in Taurus
     The second house falls in Gemini and it is ruled by Mercury. When you want something, try to be talkative and even to go a little beyond the specific objective. Do not go straight to your request. Use a telephone, letters, something handwritten by you if possible. Provide the other person with information, whet his or her curiosity, tell him or her something interesting, hold a pen and paper and write in front of him or her. Frequently use words like "I know, I have information, I can tell you something curious, you will understand and learn, listen to me."
     Ascendant in Gemini
     The second house falls in Cancer and it is ruled by the Moon. When you want something, try to emotionally awaken the other. If possible, resort to your feelings and make your request. Try to create a more intimate atmosphere to make that person feel comfortable, talk at home and preferably in the kitchen where there is food and comfort. Frequently use words like "feel, comfortable, intimacy, family, care, protection" as well as "forever, never, own, close, mother/father."
      Ascendant in Cancer
      The second house falls in Leo and it is ruled by the Sun. When you want something, try to be bright and confident, even a bit theatrical, do not beg - be like a child who wants directly and innocently, without any intent. However, "decorate" everything with a solid dose of compliments and admiration for the other. Focus on love and affection - when there is love, everyone gives generously because love does not tolerate account keeping and calculations. Frequently use words like "love, generosity, abundance, romantic, great, unique". If appropriate, you can emphasize what fun and happy moments it will bring.
     Ascendant in Leo
     The second house falls in Virgo and it is ruled by Mercury. When you want something, be accurate and meticulous. Focus mainly on the details and particulars, stake on pure realism and straight on the goal, and speak bluntly. Be sure to explain what will improve, purify, what will become easier or solve a problem. Frequently use words like "please, here are some details in figures/particulars/a list, to help." If appropriate, focus on what exactly needs to be done, indicate where a mistake can be made and how it can be avoided.
     Ascendant in Virgo
     The second house falls in Libra and it is ruled by Venus. When you want something, try to look good, to be liked by the other in terms of appearance, even if it is your child. Speak smoothly, quietly and elegantly, as if you are at an elite reception. Be very polite and courteous. Use all possible variations of words such as "please, if convenient, if possible." Put your request in the most beautiful words. If appropriate, emphasize things like "together, compromise, harmony, balance, peace, tolerance, justice."
     Ascendant in Libra
    The second house falls in Scorpio and it is ruled by Mars (and Pluto). When you want something, try to do it personally, privately, in the style of "I have to talk to you about something special that will be our secret." Avoid the presence of outsiders, create an intimate atmosphere in some way or seek such a moment. Frequently use words such as "turn of events, profound change, secret, risk, power, control, great benefits" and do not forget to mention the possible profit and the opportunity to use other people’s funds and resources.
    Ascendant in Scorpio
    The second house falls in Sagittarius and it is ruled by Jupiter. When you want something, you should ask for it very enthusiastically, "filling" it with a lot of optimism. Try to sound positive, to strongly believe that it makes sense for you. Do not go into details, stake on the whole, you can even exaggerate a bit to emphasize its importance. Use words like "believe, convinced, makes sense, a leading idea." If appropriate, use philosophical ideas, a nice parable, wisdom and your experience to attribute it to some higher ideal and goal.
     Ascendant in Sagittarius
     The second house falls in Capricorn and it is ruled by Saturn. When you want something, try to use a very serious approach and to show respect for the other. Try to concentrate on the essentials, be competent, speak clearly and with restraint, use some titles and social positions. Use words like "respect, my/your right, it is right, beneficial, effective, regulation, public norm, success." If appropriate, emphasize how it will affect the person's social status and personal prestige in society, and the personal ambitions.
     Ascendant in Capricorn
     The second house falls in Aquarius and it is ruled by Saturn (Uranus). When you want something, try to use slightly unconventional vocabulary and to be more friendly and amicable, create a suitable atmosphere, even if you want to discuss a serious matter. Try to use an original approach and expressions, and words like "progress, future, friends, common interests, equality, trust." If appropriate, emphasize some future situation that could be the result of what you want.
     Ascendant in Aquarius
     The second house falls in Pisces and it is ruled by Jupiter (Neptune). When you want something, stake on your dream and on your intention to materialize it. Use your most beautiful and fine vocabulary as well as your imagination to "paint" while talking. Try to make the other person begin to dream too. Frequently use words like "if it could happen, it would be wonderful, this is my dream from childhood, ideals, spiritual development." If appropriate, emphasize the spiritual aspect that stands even behind the most elementary desires.
     Ascendant in Pisces
     The second house falls in Aries and it is ruled by Mars. When you want something, try not to lose time, act quickly and directly. Be determined and use provocative approaches to drive the other person to prove him/herself. By proving him/herself, he/she gives you what you want from him/her. Frequently use words like "want, courage, determination, immediately, I am ready, fight, competition." If appropriate, emphasize that you want to be the first, to win at any cost, that you will not yield and fight openly and with dignity.