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Attracting and holding someone's attention

14 July 2015 / 16:07:59  GRReporter
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Gali

They say that everyone fights for a place under the sun. If you think, there is really no need to fight, as there is plenty of room for everyone. However, the situation is different in terms of the selected place such as geographical location, image, opportunities, career, money and everything happens because of them. Regardless of how capable you are, someone has to notice you first, so that you can take a selected place.

Today's article is on how we attract the attention of others. How to hold it is important too, because very often, it is easy to attract someone's attention but it is difficult to hold it. Naturally, good appearance is always useful in attracting attention. But in most cases, it is very superficial. Making the deepest and strongest impression actually happens in a natural way and no one thinks about it. Life is full of strange things and you are probably wrong if you think that you need to be disciplined and very industrious to draw the attention of your boss, for example. You are barely aware that in 11 of 12 cases your boss notices you for a different reason. It may be because you tell tales from time to time or because you have interesting hobbies.

In the personal horoscope, the Ascendant describes the particular person as a physical object that occupies a particular place and space. The Ascendant is the first impression that comes as a result of the cursory observation by others. Imagine that people are as different as the plants, trees and flowers in a garden. Walking among them, each one impresses you and draws your attention with something specific. One plant impresses you with its bright colours, the second with the fact that it grows in a specific way, the third with its peculiar shape, the fourth because you have tripped over it, and so on. By the same analogy, people attract attention in a different way. Sometimes we think that if we copy someone's style we will produce the desired effect and impress someone, but unfortunately, we often fall short of our expectations.

Forming the impression we create is associated with the planet that rules the Ascendant. Its position in a particular house shows the area in which we are effective, i.e. how to draw more attention and hold the attention we have attracted. If you have your personal horoscope, refer to the tables to see the house where this planet is positioned.

For those who are more advanced in this field, I will note the important connection between the planet that rules the Ascendant and the planet that rules the Descendant. Usually, in the presence of a tense aspect between these two planets or if they are in a state of misaligned reception, the first impression is formed under strained conditions and it is often not very pleasant. If a harmonious aspect and favourable reception connect the two planets, this fact helps the person make a good first impression. Furthermore, if a planet is close to the Ascendant in the personal horoscope, it participates in the formation of "How one makes the most striking impression and with what."

Read the information on the sign of your Ascendant to find out your natural way to attract attention and to hold it. If you know the house of the planet that rules the Ascendant, read the information about it too.

For example, your Ascendant is in Aries and Mars (the ruling planet) is in the third house. The natural way to attract attention is associated with your appearance, physique and clothing. This is due to the Ascendant. The way to draw more attention to yourself and to hold it lies in your ability to always have an interesting story or specific information to tell, or to know someone who can provide it.

Ascendant in Aries
Ruler of Ascendant in the first house

The ruling planet of Aries is Mars. The natural way to attract attention is associated primarily with your appearance in terms of clothing, physique, the way you move, your posture, your skills to do something with your body. Others notice you because, in terms of physique, you stand out in some way when playing sports or you just demonstrate your shapes and physical advantages. Therefore, it is very important for you to pay special attention to clothing (not as a cost but as a style), to the way you show your body, you should focus on yourself, your appearance, on how noticeable you are in terms of physique. These are your most active means to hold other people’s attention long enough to notice your other qualities as well.

Ascendant in Taurus
Ruler of Ascendant in the second house

The ruling planet of Taurus is Venus. The natural way to attract attention is associated primarily with your financial security, how you earn money and accumulate property. Others notice you because of the cost of things you show off, including your car, wristwatch, jewellery, the value of the clothes you are wearing. The way you speak and the words you use also have a strong effect and thereby attract considerable attention. It is very important for you to consider exactly where and how to demonstrate your wealth as there is a real risk of attracting someone's abusive attention. To hold the attention of others long enough to notice your other qualities, you should introduce an element of financial wealth and be careful in terms of how you speak.

Ascendant in Gemini
Ruler of Ascendant in the third house

The ruling planet of Gemini is Mercury. The natural way to attract attention is associated primarily with the contacts you have established and with the people who are in your immediate environment, including brothers and sisters, as well as with the fact that you can provide specific information and that you are skilful at a manual craft. Others notice you due to circumstances related to the contacts established by you, to the reception/delivery of some information, knowledge or some manual work. Therefore, it is important that you have a variety of contacts, continue to be interested in, and curios about, different knowledge in order to have a wide variety of information. To hold the attention of others you always have to know a curious history, something specific or be skilful at something.

Ascendant in Cancer
Ruler of Ascendant in the fourth house

The ruling planet of Cancer is the Moon. The natural way to attract attention is associated primarily with the emotions that you express and with the comfort that you create around yourself and your home, parents and living place. Others notice you in situations involving domestic and family issues, when it comes to real estate, hospitality, taking on the role of a host. Therefore, it is important for you to pay attention to situations at home when receiving people or to the organization of a reception if you are committed to it. It is important to be aware of the emotions ​​that you express and their effect on others. It is enough to ensure the comfort of others to hold their attention.

Ascendant in Leo
Ruler of Ascendant in the fifth house

The ruling planet of Leo is the Sun. The natural way to attract attention is associated primarily with the manifestation of some innate talent that you have, of your hobbies when you somehow entertain the people around you. You also attract attention because of your love relationships and children, either your own or someone else’s. Others notice you due to situations related to places associated with arts, entertainment and pleasure. Therefore, it is important that you bet on your personal talents and develop them, pay special attention when there are children around, be actively involved in the world of creativity. To hold the attention of others you should offer them the opportunity to have fun in some way when you are around.

Ascendant in Virgo
Ruler of Ascendant in the sixth house

The ruling planet of Virgo is Mercury. The natural way to attract attention is associated mainly with situations when you demonstrate your flair for practicality, for solving problems and fixing what has been damaged, as well as with your work and activities associated with your health and healthy lifestyle. Others notice you while you work or in connection with your work tasks and responsibilities. Therefore, it is important that you are efficient, in good order and disciplined when you are busy and take an active part in everything associated with "amendments and corrections", have the required practical experience and knowledge. It is enough to respect rules, order and cleanliness in every sense to hold the attention of others.

Ascendant in Libra
Ruler of Ascendant in the seventh house

The ruling planet of Libra is Venus. The natural way to attract attention is associated primarily with your manner of communication, including behaviour, diplomacy, being particular about etiquette. You also attract strong attention through, and in connection with, your marriage or business partners. Others notice you while you are paired with someone and conduct some dialogues, or in connection with social events. Therefore, it is important for you to be very particular about the etiquette in communication and conduct in society, and try to be in the company of your partners as often as possible. To hold the attention of others, it is good to emphasize things that are done in collaboration.

Ascendant in Scorpio

Ruler of Ascendant in the eighth house
The ruling planet of Scorpio is Mars (and Pluto). The natural way to attract attention is mainly associated with situations that most people consider as a taboo or that are not very pleasant. These are the "dark and not-to-show" things such as obsessions, sex, addictions, problems with money, illegal activities, and risk moments but also things associated with the occult and esoteric knowledge. Others notice you when you do some "dirty job" or in connection with someone else’s money, taxes, inheritance, sexual stories. Your ways to attract attention are more delicate, so it would be better to consider whether you need it. Emphasize your ability to deal with the "dark" and turn it into "light."

Ascendant in Sagittarius
Ruler of Ascendant in the ninth house

The ruling planet of Sagittarius is Jupiter. The natural way to attract attention is mainly related to your trips, contacts with foreigners, unknown countries and cultures, to your ability to teach people and give them wisdom and optimism. Others notice you when you prepare to travel or return from a trip, when you talk about the places you have visited as they thus learn something new about the world and people. Therefore, it is important for you to collect impressions, interesting facts and stories, always having some old or new adventure to tell. To hold the attention of others, you should be a good storyteller and someone from whom one can learn something interesting about life; you should also be able to give good advice.

Ascendant in Capricorn
Ruler of Ascendant in the tenth house

The ruling planet of Capricorn is Saturn. The natural way to attract attention is associated mainly with the personal prestige and image that you have gained due to your professional realization and career, as well as with the people who are your employers or high standing persons with whom you have business contacts. Others notice you because of your professional commitments and hierarchical positions, your participation in the management of a department, company or any other social group. It is important for you to maintain your image, endeavouring to obtain respect because they are the basic means through which you hold other people’s attention.

Ascendant in Aquarius
Ruler of Ascendant in the eleventh house

The ruling planet of Aquarius is Saturn (Uranus). The natural way to attract attention is associated primarily with your friends who make up your social circle, including all those who somehow appear to be your patrons, those who protect and support you, help you on the way to achieving the desired success. Others notice you in connection with your social appearances, your participation in interest groups and formations dealing with the organization and progress of human society, and in public events. It is important for you to be as friendly and socially committed as possible because that allows you to hold other people’s attention.

Ascendant in Pisces
Ruler of Ascendant in the twelfth house

The ruling planet of Pisces is Jupiter (Neptune). The natural way to attract attention is your ability to maintain some mystery associated with yourself. Your preference to solitude and isolation, not letting outsiders into your world, the fact that you behave as a foreigner (even in your homeland) is something that greatly exacerbates the attention towards you. The more you try to remain unnoticed, the more people notice you. Others look at you especially in situations when you help someone, take part in charitable activities or you yourself seek help. Keeping silence, watching, listening and speaking rarely are your most valuable means to hold attention.

 

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