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Conflict: the Only Way to Achieve Harmony of Differences

13 July 2014 / 18:07:41  GRReporter
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Conflicts and situations in which you need to resolve disputes, are unfortunately often present in our lives. No matter how hard we try to avoid them, it suffices to bring two people together to have a future conflict as a result. All that separates people and distinguishes them from one another is a potential source of a conflict. The fact that we are separate human beings, is some kind of division too. We differ in terms of gender, age, nationality, social position, community and professional affiliation. We differ in terms of residence and beliefs, in anything you can think of, even  in terms of hair and eye colour.

Today's article is about the approach we have in conflict situations. How we perceive and solve them. To some extent, conflict is actually the only way to achieve harmony between the differences we have. Therefore the conflicts in our lives do not exist only to embitter us. They help us become more aware that we live in a colourful world of variety in which there is room for everyone.

In the personal horoscope, there is an area called the Sixth House. That's the analogue of the Virgo sign. The popular meaning attributed to it is associated with service, order, the way a person proceeds, routine, lifestyle, with the ways of maintaining physical health: medicine, other treatments, diseases one is prone to. Frankly, at first glance there is nothing brilliant, beautiful and attractive in the symbolism of this house - these are all things people are rarely interested in. What is more, they refer to them with a feeling of discomfort, not to say that people would rather get rid of them if they can.

Therefore the Sixth house in personal horoscope plays "the unpleasant role" so to speak, it describes our "enemies" or what can make us "sick." These are accidents, disease, obligations, people with whom we have strained relations, or lead wars against in lawsuits, all kinds of fights, bad habits and vices. The Sixth house is all we have to fight literally and figuratively to maintain good physical and material existence.

 And just because of everything thoroughly described here, this area in the horoscope is of particular importance. Everyone wants to have a good life, good health and a good material existence. But without working, struggling or making efforts, without having the capability of winning, you can't achieve anything. Even the heirs of billionaires who have everything by default, cannot lead a good life if all of the above is missing.

 In astrology, one of the postulates states: a person with a strong Sixth house in his/her personal horoscope, is able to win over their enemies and prevail over their opponents. Only if one has the power to win, can one rise in life and take a high position in his field. What is meant by "enemies" is everything we perceive as an obstacle: diseases, obligations, incidents and people we compete with, or rivals in every respect.

 So, no matter how "unpleasant and unhappy" this house is, without its strength, it's hard to survive in a world of fierce competition. Here lies the theme of what conflicts we give priority to, how we approach them, how we perceive and resolve them, if we have the strength to win. And, not to sound too dramatic, let me say something good about the symbolism of the Sixth house, which is buried deeper and is hard to discern - the Sixth house shows what our capacity is to improve  our lives, how many social, public and professional steps we can climb up, whether we can take precedence and prevail over the people around us.

 The Sixth house depends mainly on one's Ascendant, as it is the material expression of the conflicts and the way they take place in our lives. Also, it is advisable to take into consideration the position of the Moon and Sun, i.e. of the three basic factors in the personal horoscope. The Sixth house from the Moon shows our emotional reaction, what instincts we have in terms of conflicts and hostile situations. The Sixth house from the Sun shows the power of our spirit and the will we have.

 Now I will give you information on the Sixth house position. Read the information below about the sign of the Ascendant, Sun or Moon. Thus you will have the complete picture.

  Ascendant, the Sun or Moon in Aries

   The Sixth house falls in Virgo. The most common conflicts you encounter are related to your style of work, attitude towards responsibilities and tasks, to the performance of routine and domestic commitments. Conflicts with colleagues and  the team of people you work with are quite common too. You approach controversial situations without any emotion, taking them quite normally and without thinking that something extraordinary has happened. For you, dispute is an essential part of every activity. You solve it by careful inspection of all details, you are backed up with arguments and facts, looking for a solution how to fix things without too much explanation. Your strength in conflict situations comes from your ability to be very accurate and precise. Your winning in every dispute is based on "when facts speak, Gods remain silent." Whether you win more often than you lose during conflicts depends on the influence of Mercury in your personal horoscope.

 Ascendant, the Sun or Moon in Taurus

 The Sixth house falls in Libra. The most common conflicts you encounter are mainly related to making final decisions (by yourself or with somebody else) concerning all worldly and social events as well as personal and business partnerships. Your sociability and desire to be surrounded by people brings many conflicts in both in marriage and partnership. What is typical of you is that you strongly dislike any conflict, but you get involved in conflicts far too often. You resolve conflicts through active conversations, discussions at length, and it is like you are just waiting for tension to pass and for a solution to present itself. Your strength in conflict situations comes from your ability to be liked and nice, to bypass "fire" situations and wait for the pressure to drop. You win in controversial situations thanks to your polite and kind attitude as well as thanks to the compromises you make. Whether you win more often than you lose in conflicts depends on the influence of Venus in your personal horoscope.

 Ascendant, the Sun or Moon in Gemini

The Sixth house falls in Scorpio. The most common conflicts you face are mainly related to some hidden situations, hypocrisy, others' resources and finances, relationships with banks and sexual relations. You resolve conflicts by means of secret moves and strategies, and almost always act in a disguised way, as sometimes you use tools based on the principle "everything is permitted in love and war." You take all conflicts too personally and never forget. You have the ability to make the impression that everything is fine and only when you have gathered enough strength, do you set out to solve a problem once and for all. Your strength in conflict situations comes from the ability to secretly plan your moves to draw up a strategy to remain silent and in control. You win in conflict situations  thanks to surprising people as well as thanks to the fact that you are focused and act only when you are sure you have a more powerful "weapon" and power to win than your opponents.

Whether you win more often than you lose in conflicts depends on the influence of Mars in your personal horoscope.

Ascendant, the Sun or Moon in Cancer

 The Sixth house falls in Sagittarius. You are of the few people who are somehow protected from frequent conflicts. You seem to sense them and never allow them to develop on a large scale. However, even if they are few in number, the conflicts you face are mostly related to beliefs, faith, religion and ideals as well as to intellectual development rights, education of society and the individual. You may often fall into conflicts abroad, or with foreigners. You solve conflicts by walking away quickly. Subconsciously, you understand that if you put up with the situation, conflict  will disappear as if by magic. You just "take" the conflict in, benefit from it, and move on, leaving it behind. Your strength in conflict situations comes from the enthusiasm and optimism that everyone has their own truth, and no one can force you to change your own. You win in arguments because you focus on the optimistic side of the conflict, looking for the positive things and benefits and not focusing on negativity.

Whether you win more often than you lose in conflicts depends on Jupiter's influence in your personal horoscope.

  Ascendant, the Sun or Moon in Leo

 The Sixth house falls in Capricorn. The most common conflicts you encounter are related primarily to the organisational structures in which you participate – teams, firms and companies. Also, you face conflicts in terms of issues related to governmental and administrative authorities, social formations, and personal professional career development,  as well as in terms of relations with superiors and authority figures. You resolve conflicts by the use of all kinds of established norms, rules and laws. Your approach is very disciplined, you do not let personal issues prevail, nor do you engage in unfair moves and actions. In conflict situations, your strength comes from personal discipline, organisation and efficiency, from the benefit of being practical. You win arguments because you follow generally accepted norms, do not go beyond certain limits, you make use of everything labeled as "law and rules of conflict management."

Whether you win or lose in conflicts more often depends on Saturn's influence in your personal horoscope.

 Ascendant, Sun or Moon in Virgo

The Sixth house falls in Aquarius. The most common conflicts you encounter are related primarily to your circle of friends, the achievement of personal goals and objectives, your inability to be a team player, strong individualistic actions, and relations with people whose support and patronage you count on. Conflict situations in your life are often related to introducing new, original and eccentric activities in your personal life, technical and social progress, working with new equipment. You resolve conflicts by using unconventional approaches and a great deal of surprise, by things that shock. In conflict situations, your strength comes from friendly support, patronage and protection. You win in controversial situations thanks to surprising moves and unexpected strategies, mainly aimed at turning your opponent into a friend.

Whether you win or lose in conflicts more often depends on the influence of Saturn (Uranus) in your personal horoscope.

   Ascendant, Sun or Moon in Libra

    The Sixth house falls in Pisces. The most common conflicts you encounter are related mainly to your attitude for total independence, boundless freedom from all responsibilities, the desire to search for places and people making life easy and pleasant. You are the biggest opponent of conflicts and try to avoid them by all means, not to resolve them. You resolve conflicts by making many compromises, by complete withdrawal, even if you have to sacrifice something. In conflict situations, your strength comes from your ability to think beyond, by not actively participating and by using the principle that if you are not present, there will be no conflict at all. You win in controversial situations due to the fact that you are able to walk away, to sacrifice different things, to give up. In fact, it's a little difficult to talk about victories, since you have to participate in a dispute first, conflict or a competition - something you really try to avoid.

Whether you win or lose in conflicts more often depends on Jupiter's influence in your personal horoscope.

    Ascendant, Sun or Moon in Scorpio

    The Sixth house falls in Aries. The most common conflicts you face are mainly related to your personal initiative, enterprising skills and desire to be first in everything. For you, conflict is vital, as this is the only way you feel alive and can prove you are a person without competition, you can always be at the forefront, to stand at the top and at the front. You resolve a conflict through direct confrontation: physical, verbal and intellectual. You do not even fear to literally fight, and quite the opposite, you often do that. Your strength in conflict situations comes mainly from your personal condition: health, mind, intellect, good personal training. The Art of War is most probably your personal Bible. You win in controversial situations thanks to your spontaneity, audacity to jump on everyone and everything, courage, fearlessness, strong intellect and physique.

         Whether you win or lose in conflicts more often depends on Mars' influence in your personal horoscope.

   Ascendant, Sun or Moon in Sagittarius

    The Sixth house falls in Taurus. The most common conflicts you face are primarily related to finance, material resources, food, all types of belongings and property, with the ways in which you "build" your life, with your tenacity and stubbornness, with your obstinacy and reluctance to change. You go into conflict situations less frequently, very slowly, you can stand aside, but once you enter a conflict situation, you go to the end. You resolve conflicts primarily through financial and material "tools", and through your incredible perseverance, stubbornness and inability to refuse, even if it cost you dearly in the end. In conflict situations, your strength comes from your immense power and ability to overcome all hardships, as well as from your consistency “to dig” up to the end, to resolve everything once and for all. You win in controversial situations thanks to the resources you have, which are mostly material - the more you have, the stronger you feel.

    Whether you lose or win more often in conflicts, depends on the influence of Venus in your personal horoscope.

 Ascendant, Sun or Moon in Capricorn

 The Sixth house falls in Gemini. The most common conflicts you face are mainly related to the ways of communication, to receiving and sending information, to listening and hearing out as well as in connection with travel, vehicles and equipment for communication. You resolve conflicts primarily through your verbal skills and ability to find the right information, to say the right words. Moreover, you are able to quickly and easily switch to different tasks, you do not dwell more than it is necessary and you get easily bored - you know that Time is the most precious thing in the world. In conflict situations, your strength comes  from your mental power, from the ability to talk and communicate, “to speak out” the conflict. You win in controversial situations thanks to your neat thinking, structured information and the facts you have gathered, as well as thanks to your ability to pay attention to details and specifics.

Whether you more often win or lose in conflicts, depends on the influence of Mercury in your personal horoscope.

   Ascendant, Sun or Moon in Aquarius

The Sixth house falls in Cancer. The most common conflicts you face are mainly related to home, family, parents, ancestors, traditions, nationality, and all matters concerning property. You become involved in conflicts due to your change of mood and tendency to separate yourself from the rest of the world. You resolve conflicts by walking away and searching for personal, inner comfort, without caring what people would think about that. In conflict situations, your strength comes from the ability to remain silent as well as from the strange ability to change the shape and rhythm of each conflict situation. Thus you "extinguish" fire with water and it is quickly put out without causing major damage. You win in controversial situations thanks to the fact that you are shy - both literally and symbolically. You "narrow" the “entrance” to  yourself, getting isolated as if nothing mattered to you.

    Whether you lose more often than you win in conflict situations, depends on the influence of the Moon in your personal horoscope.

   Ascendant, Sun or Moon in Pisces

     The Sixth house falls in Leo. The most common conflicts you encounter are related mainly to your desire for personal expression, to shine, to show off, sometimes  too openly. The conflicts you encounter also have to do with the luxurious lifestyle you would like to have, no mater if you can afford it or not, as well as with your understanding that if you are connected to someone, all he/she has is available to you. Children in your life and love affairs are also a common cause for conflict. You resolve conflicts by flattery and compliments and you try to bring some pleasure in to unsharpen the "blade". In conflict situations, your strength comes from behavior of the type "I will stay on top of things and won't pay attention to such trifles." In controversial situations, you win thanks to generous gestures towards your opponents, as well as thanks to the instinctive understanding that diversity, leading to conflict, is an attempt of the ego to prevail, something you easily help your opponents to do.

 Whether you win more often than you lose in conflicts, depends on the Sun's influence in your personal horoscope.

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