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Parting with a loved one or a long-term partner is something that has happened to everyone. Some experience it once, others several times. Separation is a peculiar process. It is like facing death, but in a different version. The other one departs and there comes a gap that often (actually always) is difficult to be filled. Naturally, time heals everything, because life does not tolerate vacuums and empty spaces. Nevertheless, a person experiences very unpleasant conditions while he or she recovers.

Today's article is about separation, the easiest and most natural way to go through it and recover from it. There are thousands of tips, but the recipe is always individual. It depends not only on your ability to cope, but also on your relationship with this particular person. Therefore, some separations are more painful, while others are like snow in May. But the style and the way of dealing with all of them is always the same.

The Moon in the individual horoscope is related to how we react, emotionally and instinctively, to each situation in life. It is precisely the moon that plays a significant role when talking about the inner nature of a person, in terms of spirit, instincts, emotions, perceptions. Its position determines our nature in general, how we accept the world around us and how we react to it, how often we face disappointments as a whole and our general approach to them. We however find ourselves in different situations. It makes a difference with whom we part, whether he or she is a close friend, a loved one, colleague, relative and so on. Sometimes it is more painful to part with long-time colleagues than with an intimate partner.

Particularly in relation to personal partners, the focus is on the seventh sign/house from the Moon. It shows our emotional connection with them. A breakup is to blame on the eighth house counted from the seventh or the second house counted from the Moon. It describes how we go through the separation with an intimate partner.

The second sign (and house) counted from the Moon defines the breakup of a relationship, and shows the typical way to go through the separation so as to recover and to be able to start another relationship. The position of the Moon in the sign defines our "filter" - how we accept the world around us , how we respond to it and accordingly, the type of emotional experience that we can endure. The second sign after the Moon shows our resources to deal with this emotional experience. Therefore, a person whose horoscope has a planet in it obtains more support than others do, and the conditions for handling the situation are better for him or her. Those who do not have a planet in their horoscope usually fight alone, not seeking help from the outside world, because subconsciously they know that they will not find it.

Now I will present the information that mainly comes from the symbolism of the zodiac sign, which is the second counted from the Moon. The planet that rules it is important as well, as its speed and agility, power/weakness, show how fast you go through a separation while you recover and are able to start a new relationship. Generally, this is very difficult for people with the Moon in Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn and Aquarius. It takes them the longest time to go through this process.

Moon in Aries
The second sign falls in Taurus and it is ruled by Venus. You go through a separation in quite a pragmatic and easily attainable way. You are realistic, your emotional nature rapidly changes and a separation is more like a fresh start for you. You just surround yourself with some abundance, trying to live comfortably, deliver more luxury and splendour, indulging in good food, shopping, beautiful women or men, experiences and lifestyle that "comforts" your senses and hence the unpleasant emotions.

Moon in Taurus
The second sign falls in Gemini and it is ruled by Mercury. You go through a separation in quite an interesting way, as you become very talkative on the subject (unlike while you are in a relationship); you talk about the separation and discuss it with everyone you can. There is a direct proportion, the stronger your relationship with that person was, the longer and the more you talk about it. Having "told" all about it, discussed all its aspects, including memories, situations, the most important moments, you feel ready to get up and keep walking.

Moon in Gemini
The second sign falls in Cancer and it is ruled by the Moon. You go through a separation by indulging in a seemingly unusual emotion for you, by going through a whole range of emotions - from deep despondency through indifference and contempt to return to "I cannot do without you." You do all this in reticence, isolating yourself at home. You indulge in memories, arranging them to put them in the archive. You need to experience all feelings in order for you to break free from the separation.

Moon in Cancer
The second sign falls in Leo and it is ruled by the Sun. You go through a separation in a very dramatic and vivid way, turning it into a true show sometimes. You need to bring to light the broken relationship, to expose it (even the most intimate things in it), to undervalue it, based on the principle that when something is available to all, there is nothing personal in it and it is no longer part of you. You rush into all types of entertainment, nightlife, one-night stands, or insignificant, relationships, thus avoiding loneliness.

Moon in Leo
The second sign falls in Virgo and it is ruled by Mercury. You go through a separation in a very realistic and mostly intellectual way, rather than in an emotional one. You go to the bottom of every little thing, closely examining everything in the broken relationship. You find its weaknesses, the things to which it was highly vulnerable, and begin to criticize it. You accurately and clearly assess the circumstances that had led to the breakup. Having finished the dissection of the relationship and the person concerned, you can go through the separation, recover and continue your life.

Moon in Virgo
The second sign falls in Libra and it is ruled by Venus. You go through a separation in one of the easiest ways in general. You activate your social life and especially your contacts with new and different people. You take part in various social events, visiting places where you have the best chance to start a relationship with another person. You try, quite deliberately, to enter into new relationships on the principle, "Fight fire with fire." They may not last long, but you do this in order to go through the separation and recover.

Moon in Libra
The second sign falls in Scorpio and it is ruled by Mars. You go through a separation in a very private way, hidden from others and, your loved ones long may not even realize that you have split up with your partner. You seem to keep calm but you go through everything internally, hiding it even from yourself. Your best "friend" in this process is a man/woman for sex; you should indulge in some extreme experiences, for example, skydiving or bungee jumping, venture into something.

Moon in Scorpio
The second sign falls in Sagittarius and it is ruled by Jupiter. You go through a separation by venturing into the wide world, figuratively speaking, by travelling, going to unknown places, communicating with strangers. You avoid all possible relatives and friends who might ask questions and all places where you have memories. You try to find new horizons, engaging in adventures, starting to learn something new, educate yourself, attend some seminars and courses, go on trips and holidays abroad.

Moon in Sagittarius
The second sign falls in Capricorn and it is ruled by Saturn. You go through a separation in a very restrained and dull way, imposing strong self-control. Often you sink into depression and melancholy, living as an ascetic for some time; you can live in isolation in an almost deserted place. You seek to isolate yourself from contacts with many people, except for your colleagues. You devote yourself to work, setting some ambitious goals and engaging mainly in your professional development and success.

Moon in Capricorn
The second sign falls in Aquarius and it is ruled by Saturn. You go through a separation in a fairly strange way, as you turn the relationship into friendship, while you go through the emotional breakup and are ready to keep walking. You maintain friendly relations with that person, participate together in various social events, go out together and can even help each other find a new mate. When this person finally becomes just a friend, then you are able to immediately leave him or her in the past.

Moon in Aquarius
The second sign falls in Pisces and it is ruled by Jupiter. You go through a separation in a very fine and subtle way, sometimes even for yourself. You sink into self-pity, suffer, you can even indulge in some self-destructive acts, for example, alcohol, promiscuous sex, use tobacco or similar substances, you become inactive, lazy, and stop working. On top of that, you are able to sacrifice yourself for the other. In short, you do not make efforts, do not fight, you wait for time to heal you.

Moon in Pisces
The second sign falls in Aries and it is ruled by Mars. You go through a separation in a very violent, impulsive and almost childish way. You need to make a fuss (to provoke a violent conflict in the let’s-tell-everything-bad style), after which you are ready to proceed without ever regretting or suffering. You engage in vigorous activity, become very dynamic, filling every free minute with something new, taking care of yourself. Surprisingly, sometimes you become particularly bold and aggressive in finding a new partner.