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Some of the most common questions that people ask are related to what their partner prefers in sexual relations, what he or she likes and what to do in order to keep the passion alive. All sorts of methods, approaches, manoeuvres, toys and fragrances that wake up the desire. It is an interesting fact that the sexual part represents only about 10 % of intimate relationships. But precisely when those 10% are missing or inappropriate, they always become a huge problem. Because of those 10% many relationships and marriages fail. This may seem somehow strange, but maybe it is not.

Actually, sex is the reason for closeness and intimacy between people. Without intimacy and closeness, no intimate relationship can exist. Therefore, the issue of sexual preferences is always very important.

Today's article is about what we appreciate most in our sex life. What are the things that have the greatest value for us and which we need. Sex is not just a physical act - everyone is looking for something in it that brings comfort and satisfaction.

Firstly, I want to provide a brief explanation. In order for a sexual act to be fully satisfying, the most important thing is the balance between the male and female energy in each of the partners - the yin and yang. In order for this to happen, the sexual energy must circulate - from the base of the spine (the physical organs) to the brain and vice versa. Only in this way the "three treasures" are connected – sexual (artistic and creative) energy, health and vitality and spiritual and mental strength. If this connection is achieved, it is a powerful source of health and happiness. Therefore, the famous number 69, which is the subject of many jokes, has a deep meaning for those who understand it.

The Chinese have discovered what I described above millennia ago, and in fact it is the main thing that everybody looks for in their sex life. The differences lie in the ways in which we achieve it and precisely these ways gain the greatest value and worth. What works for one person does not work for another person. Each of us has a "start button" - it is in the form of certain circumstances which are a direct way for the achievement of complete satisfaction and finding the desirable "three treasures".

A very important element, however, is the fact that in most cases we do not know what we appreciate most and what presses "the start button" and turns us on. We need someone else to make us understand this. Brilliant psychoanalyst Carl Jung said something very simple: individuals know nothing about themselves. They need others in order to get to know themselves. Which means that if our current partner does not have an innate instinct to give us what is valuable to us, does not know how to, or maybe he or she does not want to, give it to us, we'll look for other people. And that's how we come to the abyss in intimacy and closeness.

In the personal horoscope, the eighth house is associated with sex. And if we take it as a starting point, we can read the story of sexual life. The second house in the horoscope, as a principle, is related to what we appreciate the most in life in the form of tangible and intangible things. It is related to what we need in order to satisfy our needs purely physically (money, food, clothing, etc.). Therefore, to understand what we need in order to satisfy our sexual needs, what we appreciate most and what are the circumstances that "turn us on" so that we can achieve satisfaction and comfort we need to consider the second house, counted from the eighth house. And this is the ninth original house in the horoscope. The information is derived from the sign in which the planet that rules it falls as well as the planets which fall in it.

I will give you the basic information on what the ninth house reports according to the zodiac sign in which it falls. I will point out which the ruling planet is - its status determines what chances in life we have in order to find the satisfaction we seek. This is a complex issue and I will not dwell on it.

I will give you information according to the sign of the Ascendant, because it is a main factor when it comes to material life events and everything that we can experience physically. But if you do not know it, you can read the information according to your sun sign.

Ascendant in Aries

The ninth house falls in Sagittarius. It is ruled by Jupiter. In a sexual relationship, you greatly appreciate honesty and straightforwardness, laughter and entertainment. You greatly appreciate those situations in which you feel as if you are on holiday and filled with optimism and ability to have fun. These are the most important circumstances through which you achieve comfort and find the “three treasures”. You deeply appreciate those partners who can have fun with you. Your sexual approach is quite restrained, and that is why people who can provide you entertainment, have a particularly high value for you.

Ascendant in Taurus

The ninth house falls in Capricorn. It is ruled by Saturn. In a sexual relationship, you greatly appreciate rituals, procedures and "the rules of the game." "Professionalism and skills" are very important in your sex life. You greatly appreciate situations in which everyone knows what to do, has tried to become adequately qualified, knows well his or her potential and manages to make the most of every moment. These are the most important circumstances through which you achieve comfort and find the “three treasures”. Your sexual approach is very direct and those who manage to follow the procedures and rules for the sake of a common cause and goal have a particularly high value for you.

Ascendant in Gemini

The ninth house falls in Aquarius. It is ruled by Saturn (and Uranus). In a sexual relationship, you greatly appreciate originality, surprise and extraordinary things, as well as the absence of rules. You greatly appreciate situations that violate established norms and circumstances in which you encounter absolutely unknown things. The strange, absurd, surprising and shocking – these are the most important circumstances by which you achieve comfort and find the “three treasures”. Your sexual approach is very vague and the person who manages to wake you up through shock and surprise has a particularly high value for you.

Ascendant in Cancer

The ninth house falls in Pisces. It is ruled by Jupiter (and Neptune). In a sexual relationship, you greatly appreciate the sense of compassion and the feeling that you donate alms. You greatly appreciate situations in which you can give to the "poor", when you somehow feel sorry for a partner and you show compassion in the form of soothing sex. However, these are the most important circumstances through which you achieve comfort and find the “three treasures”. Your sexual approach is very active and those who manage to make you feel sorry for them have a particularly high value for you.

Ascendant in Leo

The ninth house falls in Aries. It is ruled by Mars. In a sexual relationship, you greatly appreciate the primary power and energy and the feeling that you are in the eye of the storm. You greatly appreciate situations which are dynamic and active and have energetic bursts, strong momentum and a bright passion. And even better if there is a risk. These are the most important circumstances through which you achieve comfort and find the “three treasures”. Your sexual approach is very calm - it includes touches, as well as physical comfort and luxury. And the one who knows how to wake up your passion and makes you explode (both literally and figuratively) has a particularly high value for you.

Ascendant in Virgo

The ninth house falls in Taurus. It is ruled by Venus. In a sexual relationship, you greatly appreciate convenience, material comfort and tranquillity. You greatly appreciate situations in which there is complete comfort, "the sun is shining and the birds are singing," soft furnishings, when everything is fine and you do not worry about anything. These are the most important circumstances through which you achieve comfort and find the “three treasures”. Your sexual approach is a bit schizophrenic, chaotic and nervous. And those who manage to bring peace and comfort and make you relax have a particularly high value for you.

Ascendant in Libra

The ninth house falls in Gemini. It is ruled by Mercury. In a sexual relationship, you greatly appreciate diversity, communication, mental activity and the constant stream of "news and new information." The latter often makes you appreciate the frequent change of sexual partners, since "yesterday's news is already old today." You greatly appreciate situations in which there are a lot of conversations and in which you learn new things. These are the most important circumstances through which you achieve comfort and find the “three treasures”. Your sexual approach is very romantic, emotional and sensual, and the one who knows how to talk about feelings wonderfully has a particularly high value for you.

Ascendant in Scorpio

The ninth house falls in Cancer. It is ruled by The Moon. In a sexual relationship, you greatly appreciate feelings and emotions, when you have a feeling that you're at home with your parents, that you're deeply connected and fully protected and safe. You greatly appreciate situations in which there are objects that remind you of home, when your favourite food is in front of you or while you are cooking. These are the most important circumstances through which you achieve comfort and find the “three treasures”. Your sexual approach includes silence and immersion in feelings and the personwho manages to follow your emotional wave and awakens your emotions has a particularly high value for you.

Ascendant in Sagittarius

The ninth house falls in Leo. It is ruled by The Sun. In a sexual relationship, you greatly appreciate love - pure and unconditional, similar to kings and queens who love and are loved by all. You greatly appreciate situations in which you are the only, and the most important, person in the world, when you are deeply appreciated and always admired. These are the most important circumstances through which you achieve comfort and find the “three treasures”. Your sexual approach is very critical, always seeking to repair some defects by offering sexual "help". And those who manage to be grateful to you forever and give you their admiration and love have a particularly high value for you.

Ascendant in Capricorn

The ninth house falls in Virgo. It is ruled by Mercury. In a sexual relationship, you greatly appreciate purity, orderliness, responsibility, and "hard work." You greatly appreciate situations in which there is faithfulness, loyalty, established habits and usefulness. These are the most important circumstances through which you achieve comfort and find the “three treasures”. Your sexual approach is very kind, gentle - like a geisha. And those who manage to be practical and responsible and "serve" faithfully, as well as work hard in terms of sex have a particularly high value for you. You somewhat tend to use/provide sexual services in exchange for other benefits - for you they have a very high value.

Ascendant in Aquarius

The ninth house falls in Libra. It is ruled by Venus. In a sexual relationship, you greatly appreciate the partnership itself as a category and the fact that you are not alone, that you are connected to someone and there is a full understanding between you; that you are a couple now and forever. You greatly appreciate situations in which you have a formalized partnership, when you are legally married or in a serious relationship. These are the most important circumstances through which you achieve comfort and find the “three treasures”. Your sexual approach is very serious and those who manage to prove to you that they are a partner in every sense and first make a commitment and only then seek sex have a particularly high value for you.

Ascendant in Pisces

The ninth house falls in Scorpio. It is ruled by Mars (and Pluto). In a sexual relationship, you greatly appreciate everything that is enigmatic, mysterious and hidden. You greatly appreciate situations in which there is some secret that only the two of you know or when you keep secret the sexual relation itself. These are the most important circumstances through which you achieve comfort and find the “three treasures”. Your sexual approach is very playful, funny, and even silly. And those who manage to always remain mysterious and not fully open, so that you can not get to the "bottom" have a particularly high value for you.