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The subject of loyalty and devotion between partners in an intimate relationship and marriage is as old as the world itself and it is still up to date. Even today in the age of the supposedly free relations. Free, free ... how free can they be?! Until they become serious.
Why are there people who manage to be happy throughout their life with one partner, while others are in constant search for love and happiness and still they do not find them? Why are there people who manage to remain faithful and loyal to their partner and others don’t?

Before I go into astrology, I will focus on some of the natural features of people. Because without this knowledge it is quite impossible to distinguish any astrological factors in the individual horoscope, which indicate whether a person would be faithful to his partner.

In the basis of any partnership the genetic factor has a primary role. It is precisely this, the genetic imperative, that compels us in a very elegant way to bind intimately. Because the meaning, the root cause behind each intimate relation is the extension of the family - not only our family, but of the humanity in general. Even if this commitment is only in the form of safe sex, it is still driven at the genetic level. Of course, now many people would raise their voices that in the partnership there are more important things than just sex and reproduction. I do not at all deny that. But think about this now what is the first thing you would do if you find yourself in front of a grizzly bear? You would hardly think of world peace and protection of wildlife. The first thing automatically and instinctively, would be - "How to survive?". This is our genetic imperative that on a global scale is very careful to survive by driving us to procreate, to reproduce, to create a family and maintain the human race.

So ... She and He meet and their genes whisper - "It’s time". Relations intensify and become serious. While the genetic factor plays its game, everyone is ready to compromise and accepts the other person without hesitation. This is that wonderful time of love and romance. And what we forget is that a person does not enter into relationships with their genetic material only. He carries many things more which we "discover", after the genes are done with their game. And we have to accept him not only with his marriage robe, but with his entire wardrobe.

In this line of thought we get to the conclusion that when the genes have achieved their goals – they have connected into a relationship two people for the continuation of the offspring - come out factors such as love, support, security which are a prerequisite for being happy and satisfied with our partner and not looking for others. Now do not make immediately the connection with love, happiness and support in the common sense. Very often what we need, has nothing to do with what we think we want.

In our relationship there are two components - skills to maintain them and their outcome. My astrological experience to date has shown that the main importance always have our genes. If a person does not attract us genetically, we simply will not deal with him. No matter how good compatibility we have as partners. We will meet, we will learn our names and basic life requisites and we’ll stop there – we’ll be just acquaintances. This is true even for our friendships. No matter how strange it is the deep and lasting friendships between people of the same sex again set foot on the genetic attraction.

In the individual horoscope for each of us lies a specific model, following which we enter into relationships, we accept the others and respectively we devote to him. These are our skills and ways to maintain intimate relationships and marriage. This model also includes the genetic factor, because our genes have an impact not only on our physics, but on our character and respectively on our lives.
There are people with "poor" skills when it comes to the relationship with their partner. There are people with "good" skills. I put the words poor and good in quotes, because good skills do not always lead to successful relationships. And vice versa. Our individual model may indicate "poor" ability to maintain relationships and this may leads us to relationships in which hostility, coldness, conflicts and contradictions occur frequently, but the relationship to be successful and durable over time.

When someone crosses our way who fits into our model of relationship, whatever it is, we are deeply attracted to him. If in the horoscope we have indicators of difficult relationships, it does not automatically mean unsuccessful relationships. And difficult relationsips do not necessarily involve infidelity on somebody’s part, divorce, separation, because although difficult they may be deeply satisfying in the end. I know it sounds absurd. But it is a known fact that when in a marriage for years, everything goes as well as honey and butter, there is no tension and no conflicts, it often appears that the number is greater than two - probably three or four, not counting the children. While in more difficult marriages, which are accompanied by tension and disputes, there often is a deep affection for the other, hidden charm and mutual need for the other person.

The skills of a person to enter into relationships show how he reacts when faced with crisis in those, how he accepts the other person, how and what he gives and invests in these relashionships. And the final result shows whether we will have lasting and satisfying ones. It - for better or worse - is not a function of our skills. If we make an analogy with a game of tennis between the first two in the world rankings - and they are both incredibly good, but only one will win the match. Which gives a different outcome for each of them independently of the work and the skills they possess.

Everyone has a different type of skills for marriage and relationships that are defined by the Moon, Venus, Mars and the Sun in our horoscope and by the planet that is the manager in the ascendant. This last planet is determined very easily. Each zodiac sign has a fixed planet Manager:
Aries - Mars
Taurus - Venus
Gemini - Mercury
Cancer - Moon
Leo - Sun
Virgo - Mercury
Libra - Venus
Scorpio - Mars (and Pluto)
Sagittarius - Jupiter
Capricorn - Saturn
Aquarius - Saturn (and Uranus)
Pisces - Jupiter (and Neptune)

The alchemy between the planets shows what skills we have for intimate communication. Again I emphasize that good and poor skills are divided in such a way only for us to define what we need. Moon and Venus define the model we follow when accepting someone intimately in our lives, what we need. Sun and Mars define the way we maintain the balance in this process. Or in other words, what we give the other person, after accepting him - him and what he gives us.

Whenever we analise the relationship between two people we make the so called partner analysis, which includes interactive links between the individual horoscopes. These are the links between the planets of the two horoscopes. Everyone is surprised when we understand that there are people who fundamentally do not interact well with others as a whole, but they find themselves in long and satisfactory relationship. And those people, distinguished with their brilliant social skills, somehow find themselves in relationships that end sooner or later, or are torn by constant infidelity. The answer lies in the synergy between the planets of both partners.

While our skills to interact with others can be found in the partner analysis, the end result of our intimate relationships - whether they are stable over time, whether they will overcome all obstacles, whether there will be elements of infidelity, divorce, etc. – is a question whose answer is found in a slightly more complicated way. It is primarily a function of the individual horoscope. For those who have some experience I will mention that a key factor is the sign of of the Descendant and the planet manager of the Descendant - its home position and the aspects to the Ascendant, its manager and the Moon. A second key factor is the sign and planet governor of the 7th house from the Moon.

Finally, we end with something trivial. And as trivial as it as and seemingly all know it, it is so true and almost no one pays attention to it. Sometimes it's funny to watch people suffering, that their partner had sex with another man or woman. And these same people do not suffer and do not pay attention if their partner clearly demonstrates lack of love and happiness in a relationship without actually cheating. They accepted it as normal. To have faith, love and happiness between two people they both must be involved. Only one is not enough.
The popular western astrology and the psychology as well, insert the remark that if you "work" on your relationship, there is no way not to achieve results. And if the result is bad, you have not "worked" properly.
However, Indian wisdom says: sometimes success can be achieved with absolutely no effort, it is enough to be natural. Sometimes you may move mountains, nothing can save you from failure. I personally accept this philosophy – it has proven right in my life and my astrological experience to date.
Whether your partner is willing to cheat on you and to leave or he will be happy and satisfied?! It is "written" in your horoscope as well. Do not just look for this in his horoscope.