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Galy

Human psychology in the modern world has acquired enormous dimensions. If ten centuries ago people were rarely interested in their internal impulses, today there are almost no people who do not think about themselves, their desires, instincts, the psychological mechanisms that move them in life and what their function is in the world.

Some time ago I wrote an article about the main types of fears that haunt us when we are thrown into crisis and what the general compensation mechanism is, which we turn on in order to overcome them.

In this article I will talk about our weak spot, which is the deepest motivation for all of us in life. Each of us has a basic mechanism in life that on one side is the driving force in our lives, and on the other is our weakness that we face constantly and that most of us want to get rid of. This is totally absurd. This is something like saying that everybody wants to live in heaven but nobody wants to die.

Nothing happens in our lives with a reason. Every one of us has a set of "tools", mainly psychological, thanks to which we are kept alive. We have protective mechanisms and it is necessary for us to follow them because they are given to us from birth, and not try to fix them or throw them away. We will not only be unsuccessful in restoring our balance and saving ourselves but we may fall into even greater crisis by trying to become stable through something that is not ours.

In my life experience with people I have found that one of the main problems lies in the fact that we always try to be something other than our deepest nature. If I am a person whose greatest weakness is the sensation of uncertainty, then this is my nature. My weakness is my greatest strength, my deepest motivation to live and my most powerful engine. In moments when I try to "fix and throw” my need of security, I actually quit on myself. Why do you need to do this? I definitely do not, because in this way I reject my own identity.

Everyone has their main weaknesses, which are the sources of many problems in life. But at the same time they are the most powerful engine. The analysis of the individual horoscope includes opening highlighted zodiac signs and planets that are associated with our weakest spot. A place in which our greatest strength and power are hidden.

Emphasis on the signs Aries and Gemini. I am not necessarily talking about the Sun being in these signs. It is enough for these signs to be highlighted in the individual horoscope. From planets - Mars and Mercury.

Their weak spot is the feeling of insecurity and shame. These people try to make things right in order to feel safe. They are terrified of the thought of being wrong and feel that making mistakes is a huge shame. And all this is done only for them to realize that they are making even more mistakes and therefore they feel more insecure and terribly ashamed. After yet another mistake they bury their heads in the sand, they become isolated and investigate everything to the last detail. Ultimately, their greatest security is gained from the mistakes they make. These are people who truly learn from their mistakes.

Emphasis on Aries and Cancer from planets - Mars and Moon.

Their weak spot is the eruption of uncertainty when faced with resistance from others and the feeling that they are not accepted. They constantly try to associate with people, to maintain a good social circle around them. And every time, when confronted with failure, no matter how small, they close their door to others gradually. Any resistance and rejection from others is a strong blow to their sense of security and they simply withdraw haughtily. But this is their greatest strength - the feeling that someone does not accept them, they are rejected, leading them to learn to be patient and to adjust to the frequency of others. Not to comply only with themselves.

Emphasis on Taurus and Cancer from planets - Venus and Moon.

The weakness of these people is the unconscious feeling that they feel unwanted. No matter who they are with, how many friends they have, what social circle surrounds them, they behave as if they are unwanted. In one wonderful moment they become shocked when someone rejects them or opposes them openly. Their usual reaction is to gradually close themselves in their inaccessible tower, in their own little world by limiting the number of people they communicate with. When they close themselves in and admit only certain people into their world, they actually indulge in their hobbies, their favorite things, thanks to which they can create unique things which can improve their talents. Such people always have some natural talent for creativity. Their weakness, that they feel unwanted actually forces them to indulge in their ability to improve a talent, through which they can achieve something in this world.

Emphasis on Taurus and Leo from planets - the Sun and Venus.

The weakness of these people is their reputation, the opinion of others about them. Their usual behavior goes something like this "I do not care what others think of me." Therefore alienating people without understanding why. And the reality is that what people think of them interests them more than anything else. They want their place in society. When at one point they find themselves in "peace and quiet", they start looking for any chance to attract attention to themselves and to develop their ability to serve general causes, to help people.

Emphasis on Gemini and Leo from planets - Mercury and Sun.

The weakness of these people is making mistakes. Some minor ones, which ultimately prove to be serious. Then they begin to feel guilty. It is precisely this sense of guilt, that they have made a mistake, which is their strength. This drives them towards trying to correct their mistakes, to comply with the opinion of others. And throughout this process they accumulate vast experience, the ability to adapt and cope with almost any challenge. They become experts in a certain field.

Emphasis on Gemini and Virgo from planets - Mercury.

The weakness of these people is their feeling of permanent isolation. It is hard for them to feel truly connected to something or someone. As if they are lacking in feelings, heart. And they are ashamed of this. They turn their weakness into strength when in their confinement they become excellent observers, with lots of objective evaluation. Yes, they still remain isolated and detached, but the wisdom gained through their observation makes them one of the best teachers and counselors for people.

Emphasis on Cancer and Virgo from planets - Moon and Mercury.

The weak spot of such people is their feeling of being undesirable because they are unable to communicate with others. They tend to reject and behind this lies a deep fear that others will not accept them. They stand proudly in their alienation, skillfully conceal their vulnerability, their fear that someone will reject them. Thus they manage to keep people away and allow closeness only to people they can trust. They also, in their isolation become excellent observers accumulate vast wisdom that makes them excellent teachers and counselors for people.

Emphasis on Libra and Capricorn from planets - Saturn and Venus.

The weak spot of such people is their feeling that others will not accept them because of the uncertainty they constantly feel. Deep fear lies within them that drives them to seek stability. They try to be accepted only to feel safe and sound. They almost always have stress in their relationship because they always try to adapt to others. It is not always successful, but they always try. It is this uncertainty that they experience, the need to be accepted that makes them one of the most stable people to whom you can entrust your life in the literal sense. They are ready to fight for themselves and their loved ones, at any cost.

Emphasis on Aquarius and Libra from planets - Uranus and Venus.

The weakness of these people is the deep fear that someone will notice their instability, insecurity, incompetence, ignorance. They try to conceal it with everything they have. Ironically, when doing so they expose everything they want to hide. Such situations cause them to regularly withdraw from the world. During their retreats they indulge in achieving a remarkable skill, making them people who can find a practical way out of any situation.

Emphasis on Aquarius and Scorpio from planets - Uranus and Pluto (or Mars).

The weakness of such people is the fear they might not notice a thing and it will destroy their internal harmony, even their lives. This is why they try to adhere to behavior which does not attract attention to themselves. Of course this proves to be very hard for them. But sooner or later, they let something in which violates their inner harmony. And precisely this becomes their greatest wealth and brings them into society.

Emphasis on Scorpio and Pisces from planets - Neptune and Pluto (or Mars).

The weakness of such people is related to the fact that it is very difficult for them to trust others. They feel profoundly misunderstood and this makes them withdraw and break off and during this process they can become very arrogant. During their withdraw, they find their safety and learn to trust only themselves.

Emphasis on Pisces and Sagittarius from planets - Jupiter and Neptune.

The weakness in such people is related to the mistakes they make in life and their attempt to hide from them. They do not want to feel guilty, bearing in mind that the mistakes are their own creation. They continuously run and hope they will forget instead of recognizing them. This leads them to indulge in new things, hoping to forget the past. It is this experience that they acquire during their “escaoe” which makes them wise and valuable to society.