The skills of a person to enter into relationships show how he reacts when faced with crisis in those, how he accepts the other person, how and what he gives and invests in these relashionships. And the final result shows whether we will have lasting and satisfying ones. It - for better or worse - is not a function of our skills. If we make an analogy with a game of tennis between the first two in the world rankings - and they are both incredibly good, but only one will win the match. Which gives a different outcome for each of them independently of the work and the skills they possess.
Everyone has a different type of skills for marriage and relationships that are defined by the Moon, Venus, Mars and the Sun in our horoscope and by the planet that is the manager in the ascendant. This last planet is determined very easily. Each zodiac sign has a fixed planet Manager:
Aries - Mars
Taurus - Venus
Gemini - Mercury
Cancer - Moon
Leo - Sun
Virgo - Mercury
Libra - Venus
Scorpio - Mars (and Pluto)
Sagittarius - Jupiter
Capricorn - Saturn
Aquarius - Saturn (and Uranus)
Pisces - Jupiter (and Neptune)
The alchemy between the planets shows what skills we have for intimate communication. Again I emphasize that good and poor skills are divided in such a way only for us to define what we need. Moon and Venus define the model we follow when accepting someone intimately in our lives, what we need. Sun and Mars define the way we maintain the balance in this process. Or in other words, what we give the other person, after accepting him - him and what he gives us.
Whenever we analise the relationship between two people we make the so called partner analysis, which includes interactive links between the individual horoscopes. These are the links between the planets of the two horoscopes. Everyone is surprised when we understand that there are people who fundamentally do not interact well with others as a whole, but they find themselves in long and satisfactory relationship. And those people, distinguished with their brilliant social skills, somehow find themselves in relationships that end sooner or later, or are torn by constant infidelity. The answer lies in the synergy between the planets of both partners.
While our skills to interact with others can be found in the partner analysis, the end result of our intimate relationships - whether they are stable over time, whether they will overcome all obstacles, whether there will be elements of infidelity, divorce, etc. – is a question whose answer is found in a slightly more complicated way. It is primarily a function of the individual horoscope. For those who have some experience I will mention that a key factor is the sign of of the Descendant and the planet manager of the Descendant - its home position and the aspects to the Ascendant, its manager and the Moon. A second key factor is the sign and planet governor of the 7th house from the Moon.
Finally, we end with something trivial. And as trivial as it as and seemingly all know it, it is so true and almost no one pays attention to it. Sometimes it's funny to watch people suffering, that their partner had sex with another man or woman. And these same people do not suffer and do not pay attention if their partner clearly demonstrates lack of love and happiness in a relationship without actually cheating. They accepted it as normal. To have faith, love and happiness between two people they both must be involved. Only one is not enough.
The popular western astrology and the psychology as well, insert the remark that if you "work" on your relationship, there is no way not to achieve results. And if the result is bad, you have not "worked" properly.
However, Indian wisdom says: sometimes success can be achieved with absolutely no effort, it is enough to be natural. Sometimes you may move mountains, nothing can save you from failure. I personally accept this philosophy – it has proven right in my life and my astrological experience to date.
Whether your partner is willing to cheat on you and to leave or he will be happy and satisfied?! It is "written" in your horoscope as well. Do not just look for this in his horoscope.